Securing a fair allocation of parenting time is a top priority for those addressing parental rights and responsibilities during a romantic split. The courts generally prioritize parenting arrangements that focus on what is best for the children.
There is an expectation imposed on parents that they should adhere to the order as it stands and set aside their personal disputes to prioritize their children. Sometimes, one parent fails to follow the order because they do not show up consistently for their parenting time.
What happens in cases where one parent frequently cancels their parenting time?
Cancellations cause complications
One parent canceling at the last minute creates practical and financial strain for the other. Parents may have to call in sick to work, cancel their plans or pay out of pocket for child care. Additionally, children may develop a sense of personal rejection. They may view the cancellation as a reflection of the other parent’s care for them, rather than the result of practical complications. The emotional and social consequences of parental rejection can affect children for years to come.
Custody modifications can help
A parent requesting a custody modification must document the cancellations to show a pattern. Modifying the order can make life more predictable. Children may appreciate the stability of the schedule that does not involve last-minute changes. They are less likely to feel rejected if they know the custody order limits the parenting time one adult has with them.
Reviewing your current co-parenting circumstances with the family law attorney can help you decide if the allocation of parental rights and responsibilities in your order accurately reflects your family circumstances. Modifications are sometimes necessary when one parent doesn’t use their time.
