Parents who are going through a divorce have many considerations that they need to think about. One thing that some parents have to figure out is how to handle the children’s nanny during and after the divorce.
Being able to keep their nanny can help the children to have some consistency, despite the major changes they’re going through. These tips may be helpful for anyone going through this type of situation.
Set pay guidelines for the nanny
The nanny needs to be paid their wages, regardless of what’s going on with the child’s parents. Making it clear how the pay will be handled is critical so both parents know what they’re responsible for paying.
Keep the nanny up to date
A nanny needs to be able to plan their schedule, which requires them to know the children’s schedule and possibly the parent’s schedule. Since the parents need to keep each other abreast of the children’s schedule, it might be easier to use a calendar app.
Avoid using the nanny as a messenger
Never use the nanny as a messenger. Trying to get them to pass messages between parents puts them in a precarious position and may lead to misconceptions about the messages. You should also make it clear that the nanny shouldn’t badmouth either parent.
It’s best to get all terms related to the children, including the nanny, in writing. A new contract with the nanny may also be necessary. Having someone who can help with getting everything together may be beneficial.
