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Divorce mistakes: Acts to avoid during the divorce process

On Behalf of | Feb 5, 2025 | Divorce |

Few things are as emotional and challenging as undergoing a divorce. 

It can be helpful to understand what steps to take, such as seeking legal representation and prioritizing your children’s well-being. However, understanding what not to do is just as essential. 

If you are going through a divorce, avoid the activities discussed below.

Don’t spend or sell marital assets

Spending or disposing of marital assets without your spouse’s consent can be seen as attempting to hide or unfairly distribute assets. Courts take financial transparency seriously in a divorce, and suspicious activity can lead to an unfavorable settlement or even legal consequences.

Don’t behave impulsively

Divorce can be emotionally charged, and it is easy to make impulsive decisions that could impact your case negatively. Avoid actions that could be used against you in court, such as venting on social media or making significant financial decisions without consulting a representative.

Don’t act out or seek revenge

The turbulent emotions of divorce can lead to vengeful or retaliatory conduct. However, Maryland family courts frown upon such behavior. It can influence the judge’s decisions about child custody, alimony and property division – focus on resolving issues constructively instead.

Don’t involve your kids unnecessarily

The challenges of a divorce can also impact your children. Using them as pawns or involving them in adult conflicts can worsen the situation and may even cause them lasting emotional harm. Avoid speaking negatively about your spouse to your children or using the kids to relay messages.

It can be hard to remain in control of your feelings in the midst of a divorce. Having a representative on board can help you maintain focus and avoid any actions that could compromise your position.

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