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Effective Co-Parenting for Fathers

On Behalf of | Sep 14, 2020 | Child Custody, Child Custody |

Co-parenting after a divorce can be a big challenge for a lot of couples. Fathers can have a hard time since they are often not the custodial parent and feel as if they don’t have as much time to bond with their children as the mother. Fathers in Maryland may find the following tips helpful as they try to make the most out of their changed relationship with their children.


An important element of effective co-parenting is communication. This can be particularly challenging since one reason most marriages fail is a lack of communication. It can be tempting to try to relay messages through your children so that you don’t have to talk to your ex-spouse. Yet, that is rarely in the best interest of your children, who will feel like they are in the middle. Instead, communicate directly with your ex-spouse. If you can’t communicate face-to-face without arguing, use email or texts instead. This is also a good way to document communication so that there is less chance of confusion later.

Consistent Schedule

Besides communicating clearly, keep a consistent schedule that could help you co-parent successfully. Children do best with structure and routine. They thrive when they know what to expect and know that their parents will keep to a schedule. Try not to let anything interfere with your planned parenting time. Regardless of when and where exchanges take place, keep them upbeat and positive, saving any long discussions or complaints for private communication with your ex-spouse.

Fathers can often feel like they are not treated fairly in child custody cases. If you need help with a parenting plan, a lawyer could help you.


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